God created relationships are designed to be two way streets. Many of you have poured and poured out for years into some relationships with people who have narcissistic ways of thinking it’s all about them. They believe that you are in their life only to make their life better without any true caring about what is happening in your world.
These may even be relationships that started as two way streets and were life giving at one point but now due to life’s challenges have shut down one side and the relationship now feels dry and lifeless. Now it feels like ministry instead of a relationship. Truth is that it will take the fire of God igniting their hearts, to burn up the dam that’s been keeping the love of God out, for their streets to open back up in order to allow the love to flow outward once again.
When we go through trauma it is a natural response to shut down and stop the flow of love coming out. The ironic thing is that it is only through opening that heart flow back up that the toxins get removed from your stream. God will be the One who flushes all the sediment out and restores healthy functioning. It’s what He does….He restores everything He touches! I don’t believe in lost causes! Never stop loving and praying!
He will be bringing you to a new group of people who will honor and value you the way He intended and as you pour out in to these new people, they will pour right back into you. He is removing the unequally yoked people who are in high positions in your inner circle to make room for the ones who need to be there in order to edify, challenge, and to spur one another on to advance the kingdom…all for His glory!
Who are the people in your life who text just to ask “How are you?” without wanting anything from you? The people who truly care about the answer? That is a sign of a two way street relationship. Who are the people in your life that you KNOW pray for you and don’t merely say they will? Cherish them!
This is actually a answer to your heart cry in this season. He is saying that you have LOVED WELL and He is bringing those who will LOVE YOU WELL TOO!